The usual/normal line of reasoning about “taking something/someone for granted”: “Don’t ignore your blessings because they’re familiar, close or constant.” This life-axiom makes sense, and its lesson is clear.
Another possible meaning pops into focus, though: Perhaps I SHOULD take people (or things) for granted? Hear me out….
Grants are undeserved kindnesses or gifts. Given or received, they’re likely based on love, mercy or pursuit of the greater good. Grants are a sign of esteem or respect. They’re special, perhaps rare, and therefore valuable.
My grantors bless me with tangible favor. That’s a good thing, as is my grateful acceptance of what has been given/granted to me. In that framework, “taken for granted” could also mean something like, “I have every reason to cherish this person, item, situation, moment or relationship.”
I don’t want to be blasé about the wealth of blessings around me, especially the people who grant me their support and love. If I move them into the part of my brain that deals with what’s routine or ordinary, I miss the greater truth: Each granted blessing is a treasure—I should receive each grant with reverence and gratitude.
My spouse Chris fits these thoughts. I never want to think of her presence in my life as ordinary. As lifelong partner, she grants me what’s often beyond words. I gladly accept her amazing gifts of love and forgiveness, and think of her as part of the larger life-grant that God gives me. In that sense, I am taking her for granted.
However I think of this life-axiom, its meanings converge at the same place: What I experience each day is an abundance of God’s kindness. I can respond by holding dear what (and who) I’ve been given.
That’s why, undeserving (and smiling), I take everything for granted….!
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